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March 20, 2015

35 Affordable and Fun Date Ideas: How to Enjoy Your Sweetheart Without Spending a Lot of Dough

35 Affordable and Fun Date Ideas: How to Enjoy Your Sweetheart Without Spending a Lot of Dough


Just because you are low on cash does not mean you need to be low on fun. Try some of these affordable date ideas. All will give you memories for a lifetime.


Just because you are low on cash does not mean you need to be low on fun. Try some of these affordable date ideas. All will give you memories for a lifetime.

1. Enjoy a picnic in the park

Sandwiches, lemonade, and fresh fruit from the local market under a sunny sky - always romantic and wonderful for an afternoon of conversation and fun.

2. Matinee movies
Matinee movies often cost a few dollars less than the nighttime shows. Go in a little early, and instead of dinner and a movie, make it lunch and a movie.

3. A BBQ potluck

Bring out the grill, buy some cut choices of meat, and enjoy a wonderful afternoon of grilling and good times.

4. Visiting the local museum

Many local museums cost little or even nothing to visit. Find out more about your area by visiting history, art, and science museums throughout your region. Some may include shows, planetarium shows, or tours.



5. Camping

If your sweetheart loves the outdoors, this may be the perfect date.

6. Visit the local pet store

Really lacking cash? For a quick date activity, visit the local pet store and check out the puppies, pets, and fish. Think of it as a one-stop petting zoo.

7. Walk at night under the moonlight

Always a romantic treat!

8. An original moonlight serenade

Are you musically inclined? Compose an original song for your love, and serenade them under the moonlight.

9. Share a banana split at the local diner

Can't afford to buy a full dinner? Have dinner at home and just opt to share a romantic dessert.

10. Make your own banana split sundae

Can't even afford the diner? Use ingredients already in your fridge to make your own sundae surprise for your sweetie.

11. Make pizza from scratch

Another fun cooking together idea - making pizza. Buy toppings that each of you love, or be adventurous and go crazy with zany toppings. This is also a great idea if your date's children will be around.

12. Have a video game date, complete with microwavable popcorn

A personal favorite for my husband and myself. An afternoon of video game madness and yummy popcorn.

13. Film your own music video on Youtube

Craziness and music - a fun date combination if your date has a diva flair.

14. Visit the local library

Many local libraries have free film clubs, local art displayed, and a variety of fun programs. Look up your local library and see if they have any interesting events coming up.

15. Attend a community concert event

The local theater, university, or church may have upcoming plays, choral concerts, and other events that might be free or low cost.

16. Help out at a local soup kitchen

If your date is a charitable soul, helping out regularly at a local soup kitchen may be a great way to bond with them while helping those in need.

17. Volunteer at the nursing home

Another great idea if you and your date like to help the needy. During the holidays, local churches and schools often carol around the local nursing homes. If you or your date play an instrument, an impromptu concert may also be a great way to combine good times with helping others.

18. Make your own band and have a jam session

For the musically inclined, an intense jam session can lead to serious passion.

19. Visit the county fair

Always fun, the county fair and local carnivals offer a variety of rides, shopping, and yummy treats like candied apples and elephant ears.

20. Visit the local zoo

Some zoos have special discount rates during non-peak seasons. Call ahead and find out when they have specials.

21. Set up a modeling session for your date and paint a portrait of her/him.

If you are artistically inclined, set up a room as a modeling session and create a memorable (or maybe not so memorable) portrait of that moment in time.

22. Have a fun photo shoot at an outside location

For the less artistically inclined, a fun candid photo shoot will yield a reel of great memories.

23. Cheese and fruit at the beach

Pack a little basket of cheeses and fruit and feed them to your date on the beach. Romantic.

24. Watch the sunrise

25. Watch the sunset

26. Dance under the stars to music pumping from your car

If you cannot afford to visit the local club or dance hall, take your car to a secluded spot and crank up the music. Dance with your love under the stars in the music hall of your own making.

27. Visit an art gallery

Visit local artist galleries. Even if you cannot afford to purchase any of the artwork, most artists are happy to show your their work with the hopes that you will spread the word of their gallery to others.

28. Share a sandwich at a local cafe

If you are not famished, you and your date can share a sandwich at a local outdoor cafe' then stroll on in happy merriment.

29. Share a cappuccino at the local coffee hot spot

30. Make a snowman together

Rediscovering childhood joys is a great experience for most couples.

31. A romantic evening by the fire

Romantic music playing, the crackling of a fire, and the warm embrace of the one you love makes for a wonderful date indeed.

32. A campfire and s'mores

Who can resist the yummy gooeyness of marshmallows and chocolate smashed between two graham crackers?

33. Horse-riding

34. Get in your car and drive to nowhere

Without any thought to destination (though keeping an eye on the gas gauge), just enjoy a drive in the country, city, night, or day, with your date, and stop spontaneously at any place along the way.

35. The swingset

Swinging in a swing set reclaims a more carefree time.

September 30, 2010

Writing music into the night & tired of it

5Image by .Live.Your.Life. via FlickrHello Everyone,

I have been very busy writing music and writing articles on music, and teaching music. Music. Music. Music. And more Music! All in one night I have taught two online music history courses, composed an intro for an upcoming album, and completed jazz curriculum for a client on the West Coast. Busy. Busy. Busy.

I wish I was not so busy. My baby girl's first birthday is coming up soon and I cannot believe that the first year is over already! It makes me sad inside. I don't know. The first three months were very, very hard. I felt so very alone, even though my church friends visited often and brought me dinner and even cleaned my bathroom (thanks C.J.!) My mom-in-law did visit for a week, which did help immensely. My own parents have not seen her, yet. We hope to drive down to S. Florida in the spring to see them.

Soon she won't want to drink a bottle, soon she will be too big to cradle and cuddle in my arms, soon she will be talking up a storm and the baby babbles will disappear like dust. I hope that I have been the mom that she has needed. I hope that I have been the wife my husband needs. I feel like I am pulled from all directions. I can't do everything, but I try, I try so hard...to be a good mom, a good wife, a good teacher, a good musician...and I feel so many times like I am just failing at everything.

Every night I work till midnight. Its the only time I can concentrate on my work without entirely neglecting my family (and yes, I guess I neglect myself). It's not that I do not enjoy music. I love it! I just envisioned that when I got married and had my first baby that I would take care of her and write my music during my free time. Now I take care of her, teach online courses in my free time, attempt to be a wife, and work more into the late hours of the night. I am always tired. Always exhausted. Not very happy, to be honest.

Maybe I shouldn't be complaining. I really shouldn't. Things could be so much worse. I know single moms who never see their children, parents that have to scrounge just to make ends meet, and so many people without a job. I know I should be thankful for work. Hey, we are breaking even this month (almost)! That is something to celebrate, but when can I be a mom, just be a mom? When will I be a wife, and not have to be a teacher and writer and composer...not that I mind, but not all at the same time, and not 30 hours a week every week.

Sorry so sad tonight. Didn't mean to unload. Why is it easier to talk to cyberspace than a real person? Dunno.

Going to bed...I think...

Night,
Mamí Mozart
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