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May 12, 2015

Artsy Momma's Insider Tips: 5 Easy Ways to Encourage Art, Music, and Theater with Your Children

5 Easy Ways to Encourage Art, Music, and Theater with Your Children - Fun and Affordable Arts Activities for the Family 

Encourage creativity in music, art, and theater, in your children with these fun activities for the whole family.

Many parents are discouraged from encouraging arts creativity in their children because they feel limited by their minimal arts experience. Try some of these fun arts activities with your children to encourage their creative growth in art, music, and theater.

1. Have a puppet show.
Whether you choose to make your own puppets with brown paper bags and paper scraps, or buy theater puppets from the local toy store, engaging in a puppet show with your children will encourage them to develop their imaginations, learn about dialogue and verbal interplay, help them develop linear story narratives and perhaps even encourage music skills through improvisational songs. Work on writing skills with older children by encouraging them to write a screenplay, complete with foley sound effects and even a music soundtrack.

2. Have a variety of noisemakers and inexpensive instruments around the house.
When your children are young, be sure to have a box full of fun noisemakers and instruments, from hand made tambourines and shakers, to pots and pans with drumsticks, to inexpensive toy instruments from the store. For older children and teens, have a spare guitar, drum set, or keyboard around and encourage them to jam out to their favorite music tunes. Even the video game companies have realized the importance of music, play, and the imagination, with Wii's new Wii Music, Guitar Hero, and even computer music programs like Mac's Garage Band.

3. Visit the park with a set of watercolors and an art sketchbook.
Give your child an art sketchbook or journal and encourage them to paint nature, life situations, or anything in their imagination. Watercolor sets are inexpensive, very portable, washable, and lend themselves to easy renderings of nature. The art medium is very forgiving, and is not as frustrating for younger budding artists. Remember to encourage the art of your children, and do not be negative and critical of their art attempts. Leave the criticism to their high school and college art teachers down the road. Your job as a parent is just to encourage their creativity and provide them a safe place to develop their art.

4. Go to local music concerts, art shows, and theater plays with your children.
Nothing will encourage your children more to engage in the arts than seeing a live music performance, speak with an artist at art show opening, or watching an exciting theater play. Community arts groups often have events for little to no cost, and sometimes professional arts venues will have discounted or free tickets available for school children and teachers.

5. Play a large variety of music styles in the home.
Most children are only exposed to what is heard on the radio or internet, the music their friends listen to, and music in video games and television. While there is some music of merit in the mix of popular culture, most of popular music is intricately chained to the sale of products often unrelated entirely with the music artist. Play a music variety in your home and encourage your children to listen to world music, jazz,classical music (and more than just Beethoven and Mozart), musicals (besides High School Musical), folk music, avant-garde music, traditional music of different cultures (East Asia, Latin America, etc.), and local musicians that have not made the Top 40.

May 9, 2015

The Failure of Superwoman: A Young Composer's Confession

The Failure of Superwoman: A Young Composer's Confession 

(Originally Published 2010)
In this poignant confession, an overworked mother shares her daily struggles of work and family while giving a seed of hope to working mothers the world over. 

My friends call me Superwoman. 

Singlehandedly I juggle work, music, and motherhood, and still manage to get a healthy dinner on the table before my husband comes home at night. You can find me lecturing on Baroque Music and Beethoven at the local university, composing electronic music for my opera until the late hours of the night, teaching my baby girl proper fingering on the piano, and trying to find ways to buy organic vegetables while cutting my grocery budget by another ten percent.

I appreciate the empowerment my mother's generation gave to Generations X and Y. We grew up believing that we could have it all. Despite all of the bad publicity for being "slackers", we believed that a woman could perfectly balance work, her dreams, and her family without a cost. My parents taught both my sister and I that we could be the best, and that we were the best. I am the overachieving product of an immigrant family - another alien wondering about this lost land.

I am Superwoman. I am tired.

Several months of putting in full time hours in my spare time has sucked me dry. I want to hang up my superhero cape, put away the neat utility belt, and just blend in with everyone else. Musical ideas nag me constantly, but who has time for a symphony when baby has an ear infection, there are fifty papers to grade, and time with hubby is already nonexistent? So many notes flying around in my head - floating and dying, with no creative outlet, like a million snowflakes in a blizzard. They disappear, and I hope that someday I will again have the time to write something great, or just have time to breathe.

I am Superwoman. I am not alone.

As the economies of the world crumble to dust, and millions more join the short path to poverty, billions of Superwomen keep each nation alive. They feed the world's children, till the barren soil, and attempt to help the fledgling generation that is our children have a fighting chance in a rapidly decaying environment.

How much longer can the Superwomen fight before kryptonitic exhaustion robs them of their waning powers? Are we the shadows of women's liberation, or are we the militant mother soldiers of the New Great Depression? Are we forging a new path or are we simply trudging along a well-beaten trail? Only the her story books a century from today can tell.

Look in the mirror, my sister. You might find the face of a Superwoman staring back at you.

December 5, 2012

The Lonely Mom (Dad/Grandparent) Club

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I belong to a not-so-elite club: The Lonely Mom Club. You know the one, where to be a member you need to be a stay-at-home parent/caregiver with young children who longs for the real outside world and tries to ignore the nagging feeling to scream the fifteenth time your toddler peed his pants today. 

To be in the Lonely Mom Club you don't have to be a mother, you can be a stay-at-home dad or even a grandparent. But what we all have in common is that day-in and day-out we care, love, clothe, bathe, and nurture young ones. 

Maybe you signed up for the Lonely Mom Club, like I did, not realizing how long 8 hours can be with a preschooler (especially if you, like me, try to avoid filling those hours with TV and video games and don't have transportation or a support network). Or maybe life threw you a couple of little ones unexpectedly and the other parent is not in the picture anymore. Maybe your adult kids, strapped for cash and working like dogs in today's economic depression, have left you with a couple of grandkids running around when you thought you would be sipping margaritas and living it up in your golden years. Or maybe you watch your nieces or are one of those brave souls that take in foster children, knowing that someday the children you love today can be literally gone tomorrow. 

The minutes stretch into hours, and hours into literally a millennium.  

You look at the clock, wishing you could cherish every single moment like the sappy movies tell you to or every parenting book assumes you can, when in reality you sometimes wonder what it would be like if the bathroom could teleport you just for 15 minutes to a sandy beach in Hawaii, where you can refresh your tired soul and then return energetic and ready to engage in the latest "But I can't put my socks on today! mommy-mommy-MOMMY!" 
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And as my daughter literally 30 seconds ago brought me a pair of pink sandals so she could match Mommy (who in Floridian stubbornness wears sandals with socks instead of boots every winter) I realize that the truth is that even when I'm tired, exhausted, with zero in the gas tank, I have a child that needs me, loves me, and for some reason, wants to be like me. 

These children are precious, and you are precious for giving them the love and care that they need to make it through this insane world. So maybe you can't go out with your non-parent friends today or enjoy a romantic getaway because babysitting costs are prohibitive. Maybe your golden years are full of diapers and not daiquiris, or you're a stay-at-home dad that knows more about fabric softeners than last night's football game. But it doesn't matter...

In the end, what your kids are going to remember is that you were there to hug them, wipe away their tears, and give them what no nanny service, daycare, or television program can give: LOVE. 

Thanks for visiting Mami Mozart! I would love to hear about your thoughts. Share this blog with your friends and share your thoughts in the comments.  
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Sabrina Pena Young is a stay-at-home mom and professional composer/writer. She enjoys long walks on the beach, chocolate, and painting her daughter's toenails.
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August 23, 2010

Mami Ghost writer

old ghostsImage by theloushe via FlickrHello Everyone!

(YAWN) Baby girl has fallen asleep, and I am sure to follow! Another typical Monday. I really think that Monday should be part of the weekend.

I have almost completed a music ghostwriting job that I am working on (oooo....spooky). I don't know how I feel about the ghost writing thing. I don't mind this particular job since it is mostly a clean up job, but I see some job postings where the ghostwriter creates the entire book from scratch (and not for much). It might just be worth it to write your own e-book and sell it. It may not make much for a little while, but I am pretty sure that your book will make at least the nominal fees that someone else is willing to offer.

Maybe I just like to receive credit for my work. Right now I am working on another project where I create music exercises for a music company. At the least, I am beginning to realize that there are lots of ways to make money out there in music. I just need to do it somehow.

Anyway, for now I am busy, busy, busy with baby and music and writing and teaching. I wonder if Mozart was as busy? Would Beethoven had written great music if he had to worry about naptime? Who knows?

Have a lovely day!
Mami Mozart
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August 22, 2010

Working Freelance Mama

Image representing Associated Content as depic...Image via CrunchBaseHello everyone!

A working mama here. Right now, to help make ends meet, I am working on several freelance jobs (music and writing), writing for Associated Content, cleaning the church, teaching at an online university, and teaching at the local college. I am tired, I know, and the balancing act has been less than perfect.

I keep reminding my hubby that the economy bites right now. We both hope that things will get better. Hey, we can pay for rent and our bills (mostly) so things should be ok. And as long as the freelance gigs keep coming in, things will only get better.

In any case, I will be applying to a grant that helps musicians cover basic expenses while working on a project.

Yes, I know, I am partially procrastinating, partially just venting. Praise God that we have money coming in, that my husband has a steady job, that our daughter is healthy, that we can pay for groceries, and cover rent and our car bill (even those nasty student loans).

Smiles and now to work,
Mami Mozart
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June 17, 2010

Vacaciones en Nueva York

Hola,

Volvimos a partir de nuestras vacaciones en Nueva York. No hay nada como tiempo de la calidad del gasto con la familia. Estoy tan alegre que teníamos una ocasión que visitar.Vida hasta ahora lejos de la familia (por todas partes nos separan literalmente, de Nueva York a la Florida del sur a Kansas) esa es grande disfrutar de la compañía de la familia (y conseguir una rotura, también!). Mi hija tenía un rato maravilloso con sus primos (aunque lucharon sobre los juguetes casi tanto como jugaron!).

Si usted está buscando algunas actividades de la diversión para usted y sus niños este 4 de julio, usted puede ser que quiera controlar hacia fuera mi último artículo:

Hasta luego,
Mami Mozart

Back from vacation

Hola Everyone,

We returned from our vacation in New York. There is nothing like spending quality time with family. I am so glad that we had a chance to visit. Living so far away from family (we are literally spread everywhere, from New York to South Florida to Kansas) that it is great to enjoy the company of family (and to get a break, too!) My daughter had a wonderful time with her cousins (even though they fought over toys almost as much as they played!). 

If you are looking for some fun activities for you and your kids this July 4th, you might want to check out my latest article:

WIll be writing more soon. Just started using Scribefire, so I am hoping that I will be able to post more often.

Take care,
Mami Mozart

May 25, 2010

The Composing Mommy

Good Evening (Almost Morning),

I wonder if Mozart, Bach, or Tchaikovsky ever had to worry about how they were going to balance taking the sick baby to the doctor, caring for their significant other, attempting to have some semblance of a clean home, and trying to compose music? I am working on an album right now for a music company, and I have to have the final track (with shorter edits) done before we leave for vacation this week. Craziness!

The music is jazzy, with a Latin twist (I have a blast throwing in all the percussion parts, since I have played drums for over twenty years now). Anyway, it is nearly midnite, I am trying to finish, and baby starts crying. Poor thing is sick with a cold. Anyway, I tuck her in and then back to composing. (Yawn). I am super tired, but I need to meet this deadline. (I am sure Bach would understand, he worked fulltime as a choir director, writing a cantata per week AND he had about 20 biological children. Ack!)

Well, gotta run, even with my soundproof headphones, I can hear my baby calling from the next room. Ciao for now!

Mami Mozart

May 23, 2010

Midnite musings

Hola Everyone,

(Yawn) Its 4:30 am and I just managed to put my little baby to sleep once again. She started crawling a few weeks back and her sleep schedule went out the window. The funny thing is that she started pulling herself to stand a week before she started to crawl. In fact, except for chasing down mommy or daddy in our small apartment, she tries standing more than she crawls.

Having your own child is definitely much different than teaching someone else's children! I have probably taught thousands of kids by now, from preschool to graduate school, but having my own little booger running about sure changes things. :-)

Plus side today: I made her some yummy peas/carrots/onions stuff and she actually ate it, no questions asked!

Ok, back to sleep....(YAWN!)

Mami Mozart